Thursday, February 17, 2011

::Birth order traits::

Assalamualaikum and Hello there!!!!!!

Is birth order traits really affect our character?There are psychologist claims that it does affect out character. From my point of view, our character have nothing to do with the birth traits but have interconnection on how our parents brought us up. There are some parents that gave responsible,love and everything equivalent to their children. This means that, every one have responsible that need to be taken care off and it is up to them how to handled it. For me, I have seen the eldest have no sense in responsibility and the youngest have to take care them off. It is up to that person itself how to build their character and personality. In order to build a good character, you have to have a good sense of responsible. This is very crucial because without responsible, people that surrounds you have no trust in you. 

The eldest often treated indulgently by their parents. Usually everything that they always wanted, they often get it ( when their sibling haven't born yet)..hehehe....Good leadership??There is no doubt about it. When they have good sense of leadership, they usually have high self esteem. This is because, they often give advice to their sibling. 

The second, the one have born in between the eldest and the youngest) was said to be an over achiever, creative, artistically inclined, often felt neglected, lack of direction. Totally not agree with that statement. There are a friend of mine, that is the second child did not have this kind of character. She is not artistic and yet not creative at all. The negligence from family or parents don't think so. Not all parents will neglect they second child.

The youngest usually been interrelated with the sign of everything is easy to get. This is no doubt about it. They often been pampered with wealthiness. They are usually easy to get away because, they have to face their older sibling of they causes any trouble, 

Finally yet importantly, on how they character will be is actually is up to them. The individual itself have the power to build them self not the birth order traits. Thank you :)

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

::Dark Chocolate Vs. White Chocolate::

 Chocolate is a product derived from cocoa then mixed with fat and finely powdered sugar to produce a solid confection. The level, taste and quality of this product will vary depending on the quantities of ingredients added. Meanwhile, the tasty of the cocoa tree was discovered 2,000 years ago in the tropical rain forests of the Americas.

D.A.R.K. C.H.O.C.O.L.A.T.E

Dark chocolate is produced by adding fat and sugar to cocoa. Basically it is chocolate without milk as an additive.

Did you know, Dark Chocolate is good for your HEART???
Well, a small bar of dark chocolate can help keep your heart and cardiovascular system running well. There are two heart health benefits of dark chocolate are lower blood pressure and lower cholesterol. Other than that, chocolate also holds benefit apart from protecting your hearts like:
  • tasted GOOD
  • stimulates endorphin production, gives a feeling of pleasure
  • contains serotonin, acts as anti depressant
  • contains theobromine, caffeine and other substances which are stimulants
  However, doesn't dark chocolate have a lot of FAT???
Good news to you know that some of the fats in chocolate do not impact your cholesterol. In fact, the fats contain of :
  • Oleic Acid - healthy mono saturated fat (also found in olive oil)
  • Stearic Acid - saturated fat but has a neutral effect on cholesterol
  • Palmitic Acid - saturated fat but raises cholesterol and heart disease risk 

W.H.I.T.E. C.H.O.C.O.L.A.T.E

White Chocolate is not actually chocolate. It is because white chocolate contain cocoa butter. In fact, the cocoa butter is not consider 'real chocolate' because it have a faint chocolate flavor is combined milk, sugar and often flavoring ingredient like vanilla in order to add creamy taste.  

 Unfortunately, BAD news for white chocolate lovers!!! 
 Did you know, eating white chocolate doesn't offer the same health benefits as dark chocolate since its obviously lack the cocoa which totally contain the flavanol  antioxidants. However, white chocolate also have benefit such are :
  • contain no caffeine
  • creamy smoothness and delightful taste
  • contain vitamin and minerals - from milk and cocoa butter 
Many people prefer the taste of white chocolate over dark chocolate since it’s sweeter and creamier.

Which one is your favorite flavor of chocolate did you prefer due to it Healthy Benefit???

If you are eating chocolate for its healthy benefit, Dark Chocolate is the best answer. Despite its creamy smoothness and delightful taste, White Chocolate is not the best chosen in the healthy benefit. 

So, Enjoy Dark Chocolate for its health benefit on a daily basis while save the White Chocolate for a special treat. 



Saturday, February 5, 2011

::KP student should or shouldn't give incentives???::

Assalamualaikum and Hello there!!!

KP or also known as 'kedudukan percubaan' is the position that most of the student fear most. When it comes to KP1, it is still alright but when it comes to KP2 then that is where all the unsecured feeling arise. Well, gives incentives to the KP2 student is not a good idea. There are several factors that support this statement that is it will demotivate the KP1 student, not giving a lesson to learn but gives reward and lastly encourage student more to get KP2.

KP usually refer to the students. When they get KP1, they at first will have low self esteem and have no confidence in their studies. Then when they think of their financial aid like MARA or PTPTN, they will strive hard to score their goal. However, if KP2 students get incentives, how about KP1 students???they will demotivated to strive hard and take their studies for granted. The reason why is that they will believes that financial aid is not important issue to be taken care off.

Incentives should be given when it comes in rewarding to someone or else. In this case, when student get KP2 it shouldn't be rewarded but student should be coached till they succeed. The terms incentives itself are not appropriate. Basically, by giving a lesson to learn like giving them extra class as compulsory is better than giving them incentives. This is because sometimes they do not know how to manage their money and they spend money on something that are not relevant.

Giving incentives will only encourage more and more student gets KP2. It is really hard to get dean list but getting KP2 is not that hard. Simple, do not do revision. assignment and most importantly do not attend class, test and final exam. However, both dean list and KP2 students get incentives. For sure most of the student would rather choose KP2 because it is really simple to get.

Finally yet importantly, by giving incentives is not a solution to this problems. We have to be cruel to be kind. Thank you :D